In life, we are expected to make decisions every single day of our lives.
At the very start of our day, decisions has to be made already.
Do we have to wake up this early?
Do we have to go to work today? or school?
What clothes to wear? What shoes goes with what?
What shall we eat for breakfast?
More stuffs like that.
Our decisions actually make us what we are today.
For me, if it is not a matter of life and death, I just follow my heart.
I just do what I want.
Don’t get me wrong, I had a few strings of mistakes under my belt, which were all part of a wrong decision.
But all I’m saying is that, I already made amends with myself that when making a decision, its important that it will make me happy. And for me to be happy, my decision would have to be aligned with my life’s objective which is always to move forward. End of the day, it should make me a better person.
Life is too short for a lot of mistakes.
So for me, how to make the right decision?
I always ask myself if my decision will bring some improvements in my life.
Because I believe there is no such thing as stability. Its either you are growing or you are decaying. No in betweens.
If a friend whom you have not seen for a long time candidly ask you, “How are you today?”….. and you told him….”I am ok”… Then I think you have to reassess your life right now. From the looks of it, you are on a brink of decaying. Being ok is the last thing your long lost friend was expecting from you. He wants to know what happened to you since high school. Are you married? How many kids do you have?
For me, if somebody asked me how I am today?
I’ll tell him, “….NEVER BEEN BETTER IN MY ENTIRE LIFE…”
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